Life as a single male isn’t all as cool as many perceive it to be; sure the parties can be fun and all then the mere fact that you can pick up a different chick every time you go out and get as drunk as one may wish without the worry of anyone to pest you about it or be upset with you if you act a fool. On any given day one can stay out till almost dawn then get two or three hours nap then head out for work. These things, the typical male knows only destroys him over time both physically and socially. Being a single male has its perks that any egotistic male may sometimes find quite entertaining and fulfilling for the moment that is, moments such as being in the club and being able to dance or hang with any or as many girls as he wishes or identify the one that best satisfies your semi-intoxicating state of mind then prey on her in a bid to leave with her rather to your bachelor pad or the cheapest available room where they both can get it on not thinking of the risks of contracting a std, how many chicks one can score for the night becomes a cherished goal between bachelors. Surely a single guy might even score with a chick that’s already in relationship, now for most bachelors scoring with another man’s chick proves some form of supremacy to their ego while at the same time they would never encourage same chick to leave her man for them as it may be easier to have her as a booty call.
All the things mentioned above may make most want to be single as it seems fun being a single man but honestly it’s not…..
At the end of all the fun parties resulting in one-night-stands with some random chick that one may never see again a man wants to be real they want to love and be loved, they all yearn for that special woman to call their queen for when all is done one will need someone special to share a cup of coffee with on a Sunday morning before church. During the long cold nights one just can’t simply pick up the phone and call up a girl to come spend the night with him for in doing so he will find that he may have to make multiple calls to find a willing candidate then probably have to go pick up same from work or home. All this due to the fact that females don’t want to be just a man’s girl, they want to feel and know that they mean the world to one man and is respected like a lady… At the day’s end like the female counterpart the single male craves companionship, emotional security, someone to grow with, watch sad movies and comedies with and simply someone who is supplemental to his life while at same time yearning to be conductive of such a person’s life. Even though many single men portray a mighty macho persona out in public, behind the scenes they have the same great enthusiasm at the thought of having a family like all females do. The more different both sexes claim to be the more we realize that we are all the same. It’s amazingly unbelievable to many that with all the singly ladies out there yearning for true love there is considerably the same amount of males seeking the same.
Starting relationships are hard and maintaining them is even harder so I think that when an individual gets to know someone and opens up their hearts to each other they should do all it takes to make it work. Life is short and can be meaningless without love and one to share it with……………………………………………………………………
All the things mentioned above may make most want to be single as it seems fun being a single man but honestly it’s not…..
At the end of all the fun parties resulting in one-night-stands with some random chick that one may never see again a man wants to be real they want to love and be loved, they all yearn for that special woman to call their queen for when all is done one will need someone special to share a cup of coffee with on a Sunday morning before church. During the long cold nights one just can’t simply pick up the phone and call up a girl to come spend the night with him for in doing so he will find that he may have to make multiple calls to find a willing candidate then probably have to go pick up same from work or home. All this due to the fact that females don’t want to be just a man’s girl, they want to feel and know that they mean the world to one man and is respected like a lady… At the day’s end like the female counterpart the single male craves companionship, emotional security, someone to grow with, watch sad movies and comedies with and simply someone who is supplemental to his life while at same time yearning to be conductive of such a person’s life. Even though many single men portray a mighty macho persona out in public, behind the scenes they have the same great enthusiasm at the thought of having a family like all females do. The more different both sexes claim to be the more we realize that we are all the same. It’s amazingly unbelievable to many that with all the singly ladies out there yearning for true love there is considerably the same amount of males seeking the same.
Starting relationships are hard and maintaining them is even harder so I think that when an individual gets to know someone and opens up their hearts to each other they should do all it takes to make it work. Life is short and can be meaningless without love and one to share it with……………………………………………………………………
Collin Da’great Richards
